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“Remembering our babies and

honouring their little lives”

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On Tuesday we were very lucky to have the opportunity to be interviewed on Uckfield FM.


We spoke to the lovely Tony Williams who asked lots of great questions covering:

  • A reminder of how OWF was formed

  • Our current local projects

  • The newly refurbished Bereavement room at the PRH, Haywards Heath

  • Working with Shelley Trigwell and Hayley Marie - Pregnancy Loss midwives

  • Up and coming events and what’s on

  • Our work in both the PRH, Haywards Heath and the RSCH, Brighton

  • Future plans and developments


I’m not sure how we managed to squeeze all of that into one interview but we did!


You can listen to the full interview here:



*NEW* online Bereavement Support Group


OWF are truly grateful to two special ladies who are working alongside OWF to steer changes within early loss and the EPU’s at the PRH and the RSCH.


During our experiences with the two hospitals it became clear that the need for online support was definite.... so on the 2nd March (a very special date for one of our ladies) we launched two new groups.


Our little Stars And Shooting Stars ...


Our Shooting Stars is a group for women who have sadly experienced the loss of a baby between 14 -24 weeks gestation.


The group has been created to give support by sharing with others who have had similar experiences during and after the loss of a baby in the early stages of pregnancy.


Our Shooting Stars is run in affiliation with Oscar’s Wish Foundation (Registered Charity Number 1169892). Oscar’s Wish Foundation supports anyone affected by losing a baby before, during or shortly after birth through a wide range of resources. Support for those who have lost a baby before 14 weeks gestation can be sought through Our Little Stars page and for Fathers on the Dads grieve too pageon Facebook.


We hope you find this page supportive during such difficult days.


Oscar's Wish Foundation are very proud to be part of the team who can now announce the exciting news.


After a lot of planning and sheer hard work it has been confirmed that the Senior Management Team at the RSCH have granted permission for two rooms to be allocated and redeveloped into a *NEW* Bereavement Suite.


The RSCH does not currently have a dedicated room and this project lead by Hayley Stevenson will make such a difference.


"I was very well cared for in a private room on the labour ward but it was hard to leave knowing I might hear little ones crying" (2018)


This suite is very much needed and we are very honoured to be part of the team to help make it happen.


From my own personal experience and the experience of many of our OWF Families this kind of suite is going to provide a safe space. In the hours and days after parents experience their loss a suite will ensure that they have a space that meets their needs but where family can come and spend time making memories too.


The team is made up of many expertise and experiences. Hayley Stevenson (Labour Ward lead and Bereavement midwife) and Shelley Trigwell (Bereavement midwife) Kara- Jessica's Mummy, Leanne - Jenson's Mummy and two charities - David Ward Founder of Abigial's Footsteps and Abigail's Father coupled with Oscar's Wish Foundation.


Below is our fundraising page as we aim to raise £50,000 to make this project a reality.


Please share it far and wide. If you think you could help fund raise or have a charity collection pot in your workplace, shop or office please get in touch.


Thank you.




Last Sunday Oscar’s Wish Foundation held its last and final Charity Auction and Raffle as Charity of the Year at the beautiful Buxted Park Hotel.


Buxted Park Hotel chose OWF as it’s COTY (Charity of the Year) this time back in November 2016 and we were invited to take our raffle prizes and auction prizes along to each Music Event that was held throughout 2017. This enabled us to raise awareness of our charities work and to fund raise for local projects....


Sam contacted me and asked if he could donate a framed signed rugby boot, prints and authenticity certificate for the late Jonah Lomu...


This amazing gesture raised a huge £750!


OWF would like to say – Thank you Sam and thank you Natalie for being phenomenal.


Throughout the year as COTY (Charity of the Year) we have raised a tremendous £3,135.00 at Buxted Park – a ginormous thank you to everyone who has brought raffle tickets, bid in the auction and donated prizes.


Wave of Light 2017


OWF is proud to announce that we are holding our third WAVE OF LIGHT event this year. We are going to be meeting and lighting a candle for our precious babies. Please come and join the OWF team, light a memory candle. Write a special message and blow bubbles to heaven.


On Sunday 15th October 2017 at 6.30pm at The Garden of Remembrance, Western Road, Haywards Heath. See flyer for more information.


Family Fun Day to raise awareness of Oscar's Wish Foundation.


A team from The Harlands Group, Hayward's Heath are holding a family fun day in aid of OWF.


The aim of the day is to provide a fun family, fete type day for local friends and families.


The event will be held at the Woodside Hall in Bolnore Village, Hayward's Heath on Saturday 19th August between 2.30-5pm. Hall and field push chair and wheel chair suitable.


Oscar's Wish Foundation were awarded a generous cheque from the Uckfield Lions. The cheque was presented to our Founder, Gemma at a Local Uckfield town event where the Lions explained their reason for supporting Oscar's Wish Foundation. We are truly touched and the generous donation will help fund our refurbishment of the Bereavement Suite at the Princess Royal Hospital, Hayward's Heath.


Oscar's Wish Foundation held their 2nd Charity Ball at the beautiful Buxted Park Hotel in Buxted.


Supporters and Charity sponsors danced the night away on April 9th whilst supporting the Charities most recent project.


You can see our wonderful Charity Ball video on our YouTube Channel or by following this link – https://youtu.be/WLQ8oK_2DQ8


On behalf of myself and my trustees I would like to announce the exciting date for our Charity Ball for 2017!


We are pleased to announce the official date for our 2nd Charity Ball.

Saturday April 8th 2017 at the stunning Buxted Park Hotel.

This year we are hosting less tickets so to ensure that you are not disappointed we request that you show your interest asap.

Tickets go on sale tomorrow!


Please take a look at our photographs from our 2016 Ball and see how much fun everyone had! Can you spot yourself? Feel free to tag! https://www.facebook.com/media/set/…


Oscar's Wish Foundation has now sent out over 100 Love-a-Bear Memory Bears locally to our families.


These beautiful bears mark and honour thier precious child's life in a way that allows other siblings to cuddle and hold when they are missing them.


One of our grateful parents said "Our Love-a-Bear Memory Bear arrived this morning in Memory of Frazer who was born to soon in March this year. Our hearts have ached and arms longed to hold him close. The children have not put Frazer Bear down and are currently asleep with him in their beds. Having Frazer Bear has meant that he will always be remembered and to hear his name has brought so much love to my heart.

Thank you OWF for mending us a little."




Oscar's Wish Foundation has been running for 15 months and 1 day... We launched on February 14th 2015 an in that time have been graced by meeting the most wonderful, loving and heart broken families trying to find their way through this journey called Grief.


We have replied to over 4,000 messages, emails and requests. Sent out gorgeous Love-a-Bear teddy bears (kindly donated by Yes Promo Products). Sent out over 500 leaflets to local hospitals, funeral directors and doctors surgeries.


Had the first 100 Bereavement Bupport Bags into our 2 local hospitals and ran 4 Bereavement Support Workshops. Held 9 awesome fundraisers and a wonderful Charity Ball.


With the amazing, kind and generous help from our volunteers and knitters: crochet'ers we have received 176 sets of tiny little knitted hats and stunning little blankets to be offered to families to dress their babies with dignity.


We cannot have done ANY of this without YOU!

Without YOUR utter kindness and support. Thank you all for making OWF the charity that supports parents, families and children through their toughest days....


To our business supporters –

  • A Step at a Time Hypnotherapy (Nicky Edwards)

  • Yes Promo Products (Shirley Price)

  • Off the Wall Entertainment (Gemma Morris)

  • Mimi & Mae (Sarah Comley)

  • Haskolls insurance (Sue Layton)

  • Louise Clare Holistic's (Louise Robinson)

  • Outhouse Entertainment (Ali Gunes)

  • Fun Net Café (Maria Trinchese)

  • Potty Moon (Pea Parke)

  • Uckfield FM

  • The amazing shops in Uckfield who so kindly donated items to our grand Raffle!


Our individual supporters – you have All been totally phenomenal!

Our website, YouTube and Facebook followers – thank you for sharing our posts, documentary links, awareness campaigns and stories.

To everyone – thank you x




Our amazing supporters to continue to support our work in 2016!


Currently we are a Not-for-profit organsitation with strong values. We are dedicated to breaking the silence and raising awareness but want to push closer to Charitable Status.


We are requesting our wonderful supporters to pledge to help us fundraise. This will help us reach the annual turnover of £5,000 that we need to achieve charity status.


Obtaining charitable status opens so many doors for us at OWF and would mean we could apply for a variety of grants and funding, helping us grow our local Charity to help more bereaved families and children. With your help to fundraise it would mean we would be a step closer to reaching our goal and raising more awareness for the families whom feel alone and silenced.


So what could you do?


All of the above Events have been successful in 2015 – We have been very fortunate to try and attend the event showing our support. We will provide a fundraising pack, balloon, banner, sponsor form, posters, etc to help your event be a success!


Please contact us if you are able to help in any way...... Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!



To thank the amazing midwives who looked after Gemma during her bed rest in hospital at The Princess Royal Hospital, Hayward's Heath we made an OWF cake to show our appreciation. The midwives recognised Gemma straight away and were very kind in welcoming her back for a cuppa and piece of cake. She shared the news of the recent launch of OWF and what the purpose of the NFPO was.


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Gemma Kybert (Founder and Mummy to Oscar) receives the wonderful promotional t-shirts from promotions director Shirley Price. An exciting and momentous day with a feeling of bittersweet emotion.

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