Approaching Christmas While Missing Your Precious Child
The holiday season can be a tender and difficult time for parents who are grieving. Traditions, laughter, and lights can feel bittersweet when a little life that meant so much is no longer here.
It’s okay to feel joy and sadness at the same time. It’s okay to cry, to remember, to miss them deeply. There’s no right way to navigate this season ~ just your way.
Some parents find comfort in creating quiet rituals: lighting a candle, hanging a special ornament or setting aside a moment to share memories. Others reach out to friends, family, or support groups who understand the depth of this loss.
If you’re missing your baby or child this Christmas, no matter how long ago they sadly died, be gentle with yourself.
Hold the memories close, allow yourself to feel and know that your love for them continues, even when the world feels bright without them.
You are not alone.
Let your baby’s light shine this Christmas time.
We invite you to dedicate a shining light on our Christmas Tree of Love in memory of your precious baby or babies who devastatingly died before, during, or shortly after birth. Each light is a tribute ~ an acknowledgement of a life deeply loved, never forgotten and forever held in the hearts of those who miss them deeply.
By purchasing a light, you are not only honouring your own little one, but also helping Oscar’s Wish Foundation continue its vital work across Sussex. Your support enables us to provide comfort, bereavement resources, remembrance events and compassionate care to families navigating the heartbreak of baby loss.
This tree will stand as a beacon of love, hope and remembrance throughout the festive season. With each light symbolising a story, a memory and a tiny life that mattered beyond measure.
Sponsor a light.
Honour a memory.
Help us bring comfort to families who need it most.
Together, we keep their lights shining.
Please note that because we’re using the free package, we’re unable to adjust or set individual donation amounts for each light on the tree ~ these amounts are preset.
However, we kindly suggest manually updating the suggested donation to £5.



